Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
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Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-17T08:12:26Z 10:12:26 AM 1/17/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.
Jelloeater replied to
https://mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/1736961118/
@donthatedontkill
I feel for ya, sounds super awkward...2025-01-16T00:41:36Z 2:41:36 AM 1/16/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.
Lorraine Lee replied to
https://mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/1736961118/
Why would I want to talk about values (let alone my values) in the workplace? That would be career suicide. Particularly for actually autistic me, as one of my weak suits is lying with a straight face. astoundingteam.com/wordpress/2… Right livelihood is an oxymoron — In Defense of Anagorism2025-01-15T19:19:14Z 9:19:14 PM 1/15/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.
Nuclear Oatmeal :verified: replied to
https://mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/1736961118/
You can learn it younger. I've been doing it since I was in my late 20s and was pretty sure I had that Asperger thingy.
It made me review my drama classes in HS and the LARGE state diagram I'd created regarding how people work. I decided thar mostly friendly, humorous, but immovable was the foundation that would get me through when dealing with these weird thinkers.
The "establish dominance" look was something I practiced in the mirror. A lot.
2025-01-15T18:35:14Z 8:35:14 PM 1/15/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.
Nuclear Oatmeal :verified: replied to
https://mycabinetofcuriosities.com/notes/1736961118/
I'm an old, and kind of a jerk at times, so have no problem making someone who's making me feel uncomfortable, feel uncomfortable themselves.
"Ok, that's what you just said before." Dead stare establish dominance look. (It can be learned via practice.)
"Now explain it to me like I'm autistic."
Hand the discomfort back to them.
actuallyautistic2025-01-15T18:23:42Z 8:23:42 PM 1/15/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.I have discovered a new autistic horror. Those company workshops where people have to talk about their values and do group brainstorming. It's a oneway ticket to alienation seeing how out of a phase with others you are with either the form or the foundation of your answers. Add in, trying to ask questions to understand what you're supposed to be doing and the facilitator just repeats the directions again. It's a frustrating and depression experience.
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2025-01-15T17:11:00Z 7:11:00 PM 1/15/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-14T22:58:00Z 12:58:00 AM 1/15/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-11T12:49:00Z 2:49:00 PM 1/11/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.In reply to:@ghighi hahaha oui je suis niveau 123. Mais si jamais ça t'intéresse de faire des quêtes ensemble je suis partant !
2025-01-11T02:32:43Z 4:32:43 AM 1/11/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.Tonight I broke down with a friend in tears. I spoke about multiple incidents that, in my eyes, have broken the small community I have tried to create. I felt I had lost the family I had worked so hard to create, feeling I've never really had one. I've had a hard time expressing what I feel but I think she's the first to give me a clue on how to get back on my feet. She showed me all is not lost. Pieces are still there to pick up.
She truly is a good friend.
#friends #community #life #leftism
2025-01-11T02:30:00Z 4:30:00 AM 1/11/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-10T19:01:59Z 9:01:59 PM 1/10/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-10T10:23:00Z 12:23:00 PM 1/10/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.In reply to:@jake4480 Yes same. My calendar is a more efficient to do list. Especially for making sure I don't over saddle myself. The to do list is really fit point in Habitica that aren't dailies. 😅
2025-01-08T13:44:49Z 3:44:49 PM 1/8/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.I have lived through many hard things. I have been dirt poor, which required me to do things I won't go into detail about. I have lived through abuse and mistreatment whose mark will never leave me, no matter how much I try. And I have lived so many lives, and all of those lives must coexist in this sole body, which is hard.
But I have lived a charmed life. I have seen beautiful things and people. I have seen the best and worst of our world. And I feel lucky for it. The best has allowed me to survive, and the worst has allowed me develop a compassion for others and a sense of justice for the world I wish to see.
2025-01-07T22:44:05Z 12:44:05 AM 1/8/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-07T22:24:43Z 12:24:43 AM 1/8/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-06T18:56:00Z 8:56:00 PM 1/6/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-06T16:58:21Z 6:58:21 PM 1/6/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.2025-01-05T09:01:14Z 11:01:14 AM 1/5/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.One of the nice things about deleting my to do list is now I don't know what to do which leads to me new things or rediscovering old things. Tonight I went to a bar and played a game of Quill, a letter writing solo rpg set in medieval times.
This time I had to inform a father of his son's death. I scored just enough points to have the "best" ending where he invited me to speak at his son's funeral so I even wrote the little speech Serge gave.
#quill #rpg #solorpg #tabletop #writing #quillrpg
2025-01-04T18:47:00Z 8:47:00 PM 1/4/2025 -
Adam Wier
- Nantes, France
- June 25, 1986
- Fullstack developer
I am an alien. And I don't really understand what's going on. Sorry.
My other profilesThis site uses microformats and accepts webmentions.You can also subscribe for monthly email updates here.In reply to:@nico It's a struggle but going at six am with nose cancelling earbuds definitely helps me! There's a lot less people. I get there before the guy who opens up in the morning now 😅
2025-01-03T20:48:25Z 10:48:25 PM 1/3/2025
- Blog posts
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Slump (A poem)
Wind rushing by my ears
Branches slap my face
Speed increasing
As gravity drags me down
Into its bosom
Woosh, whack, whiz
As I wake up
To a once hidden nightmare....
4:26:00 PM 12/19/2024 -
A Manifesto? - Part 1: New Ways of Being
I have an idea rattling around in my head. An embryo of an idea. A little intellectual itch nagging at me. A perpetual refrain when my mind idles and looks for the nearest thing to alight on. A noti...
4:06:00 PM 10/13/2024 -
The dreams continue.
During my nap, in the dream I woke up from it but not for real. There was someone strangely in my apartment. Seemed kind of lost. I asked who he was and why he was here and he just left. Then I went...
3:27:00 PM 7/22/2024 -
More dreams
I just woke up from another bad dream. I'm not sure if you can call this one a nightmare because I normal associate them with fear and this was sadness, stress. Stuff happened before but the part I ...
9:33:00 AM 7/20/2024
The Rise of Endymion
Dan Simmons
Total playtime in the last two weeks
6.4 hours
Darkest Dungeon®
Darkest Dungeon is a challenging gothic roguelike turn-based RPG about the psychological stresses of adventuring. Recruit, train, and lead a team of flawed heroes against unimaginable horrors, stress, disease, and the ever-encroaching dark. Can you keep your heroes together when all hope is lost?
5 hours in the last two weeks
How Fish Is Made
Are sardines trustworthy? Are you? Do you want to be? How Fish is Made is a janky little jaunt through the world of surrealist storytelling. Now featuring a Katamari-like DLC!
35 minutes in the last two weeks
Mother Russia Bleeds
An old-fashioned beat 'em up with big doses of adrenaline and trippiness, somewhere between the classic style of Streets of Rage and the ultra-violence of Hotline Miami. Set in a cold, ruthless Soviet Union, Mother Russia Bleeds aims to conjure up anxiety, unease, and drug-addled frenzy.
35 minutes in the last two weeks
Himawari - The Sunflower -
After jointly founding the so-called Space Club, Youichi and his friend Amamiya Ginga, the son of Amamiya Daigo, spent their school days building a rocket -- until one fateful night, a mysterious young girl called Aries crash-lands near them, her memories also lost from the shock of the landing.
14 minutes in the last two weeks
Apps I've created and use regularly
- An app I made to help budget tracking in Rust
- An app for meal planning, macro tracking that can also make a shopping list!
- A command line app to synchronize my Habitica account to my gmail calendar
- A watch face for WearOS that provides a visual calendar and punctual alerts for people with time blindness